20 Jul 2021, 04:16
post #16
hello all,
here there is a big problem at the base. We are all, clients and providers, that escorting is not prostitution. Because of this big lie we are in this mess..
a decent street working girl will charge you R200 + R100 for a lodge where you won't get TB (at least) which is almost equivalent to the 30 minutes rate for a girl in Durban, not very far from the 1hr rate.
I fully understand the opinion of Russian Bridgitte, where she says that to give a good service it is necessary to spend to prepare it and, the client needs to understand that.
Unfortunately, there is this typical KZN approach where a discount or a special is always requested (and not forget the shopping around) is endemic and forced the girls to give "survival" rates.. this is the same it is happening in the construction or services industry, isn't it?
they practically survive (about R500 goes to the room, R150 in food and essential and two clients' payments are gone, how do you expect them to also being in brand new lingerie, properly relaxed in pretty make up), they feel are being used and the result is that the service is just sex (shit sex) and they want us just to go while they should just sell us time.
Initially I have decided not to discuss about the price and not ask for any discount, the service was horrible, then I tried to pay more....... well, maybe was better for the first or the second time, then the service went back to the start and the bail out requests start. Because, at the end, if you are "nice", you are just seen weak and they will take advantage of you.
how to get out of this mess? definitely not asking for further discounts or offers, but I don't have answers.
in this period of looting and violence, I have decided to help my favorite girl on my initiative. Actually I felt very wrong in enjoying my warm and full or groceries house while her was struggling. I hope she won't take advantage of this, otherwise she will lose a client but, at least, I tried..
let's all to be nice with the working girls, hoping they will understand that this kindness will allow them to step up in the game, not the opposite..
sorry for the long and boring essay :)
Lord