hello

let me use an real example to get to the point ... you all should already know that I am a friendly easy going guy, so bare with me if you think I was too naïve :)

I have booked this WG, she was in DBN after so long and I was waiting for her since the last time.
She is on Whatsapp so, perfect, I have asked her rates, services and about her availability. She replied after a while with what I asked for but I was on site, so I did not start any planning until evening.
Probably she felt that the rates were too high, so she lowered without me asking from R700+100bare to R500+100.. great, cool, took the discount without asking and we had a great deal the following day.

Since I have considered her like a possible regular, she is stunning and decent at sex, I have tried to be nice and had access to my phone.
Obviously she's been nice until she felt acceptable to ask for a first loan of R200 that, actually, promised to pay back.. ok, for the first time is ok, let's see if she pays back

for the second appointment I have still asked the fare, she said R600 again, I did not want to misunderstand and everything went fine.
Unfortunately she asked again another "loan"R200 with some lame excuse.. I have asked if that money was going to come back like the other R200 and she went ballistic

something like that I was meeting her paying less than her JHB fares, that her service was soooo good and crap like that, until I have replied that I have never asked for any discount, that I appreciated her service and for that offered her (and her broke friend) a dinner the first evening so I had nothing to feel bad

after a few days she apologized, but without trying to guilt tripping me again by making me noticing that I have humiliated her asking back for the money that she was supposed to pay back..... like treating her like an equal is not a compliment
Anyways, she wanted me to go back to her, probably she was broke again... unfortunately the regular WG relationship did not work

what did I do wrong? what could I have done better? what do you all do with your regulars? I found that this thing of trying to guilt tripping you "rich" client is a common behavior

I think this can be interesting, also to find what is supposed to be the right professional approach from our side

thanks a lot

Lord

Simple give her another 200 and get the payback in kind.

I think you owe your fellow punters the profile so we don't get caught because just now it comes to black mail

Mistake is to get too personal with the ladies. Don't ask too many questions about their private lives. Be careful of the ladies that offer a girlfriend experience as they will try to milk you eventually. Once you receive the 1st request for a loan on whatsapp just reply "sorry things are really tight and I don't have any extra cash" it's fine if they don't want to see you again. No one is that desperate.
I'm sure you are a good guy with compassion for people but you decide whats best for you..

Asking for "help" or an advance on a booking payment is a hard fucking pass for me and gets a WG blacklisted, I have one exception to that rule and that's because I know that the lady won't fuck me over.

Hen I walk into a wg place I have my burner phone and the amount of cash only wallet real phone stays in the car I've had requests for extra donations and simply how my empty pockets and say i left my wallet at home. Iaslo change unregistered Sims every 3rd month only cost 5 bucks China mall.

these ladies just want your money bottom line

make a mistake and open up to much and show your caring side too much and that's what's going happen its like an invite to take advantage of you

even if you gave them this loan dont ever make the error in thinking you are going to get paid back at the least in cash , probably the best thing to do

if asked for money is to broker another round or more time on your booking , these ladies are no where near being your friends they most probably

despise us, maybe just a handful actually like what they do the rest are just tolerating us for our money ,thats why there are so many scammers and

lousy service providers out there , all we are just cash cows to these ladies period

lesterg wrote:

I think you owe your fellow punters the profile so we don't get caught because just now it comes to black mail

I will in my review, just waiting a bit to see it was just a simple request or will go to blackmail (so far it seems she is not trying that route)

Nevil wrote:

[font=Arial, Tahoma]these ladies just want your money bottom line[/font]

[font=Arial, Tahoma]make a mistake and open up to much and show your caring side too much and that's what's going happen its like an invite to take advantage of you[/font]

I also assume to be a cash cow for them, but, are we going to accept that is very unlikely we will be able to be a decent human being without being robbed?

the payment back in nature doesn't work, to me, because after you get forced to go to her and it is not a pleasure anymore, it becomes a full time job
edited by Lord_randal on 6/7/2022

Been reading on this topic & i agree with every single comment posted & like everything else trust is earned i have 2 wags is visit one DBN the other JHB they know exactly how i want it both took time and been visiting both for longer than half a year, but what u need to know both don’t know real name both only use the whatsapp on my burner and i also don’t know they real names the one in jhb once was stuck & asked for R400 for traveling i sent it knowing i will nevget it back, but what i can tell u she sees me even when I’m broke and service is always good and she knows I’m pay when I’m good my point like any business relationships keep boundaries & always do what u say u gonna do and this goes both ways for punters and WGs

When the line is crossed from being pay per hour to favours then it's time to just move on.
No matter how much you have given already it's still cheaper to walk away. Cut your losses.

Assetmanager wrote:

When the line is crossed from being pay per hour to favours then it's time to just move on.
No matter how much you have given already it's still cheaper to walk away. Cut your losses.

Otherwise you will be opening up a Pandoras box of threats/extortion

One needs to be carefully. I have made the mistake to help some of these girls. They will milk you and they are all full of lies!