Merlot I think you should cut the call immediately when ask for a deposit.
Also you must be using a burner.
Don't even bother trying to see those girls. They are trying to scam you.

@ Community

Have you'll been with a girl that refuses to see you because she believes that she is developing feelings for you?

However, her modus operandi is to scam you for more and better

@ Mike

This seems to be a common theme with a lot of the WG's.

If you have become a good regular to a number of them, then you can start spotting the pattern.

A common trick is the ease at which they are willing to accommodate raw sex because they consider you more of a boyfriend than a client.

Life happens King.
We need to make the choices that suit our lifestyles.

Yes it can also be a scam. But our principles will guide us.
Are we going to choose to pursue or cut loose.

What's important is to always retain control of your own actions.

@ Asset

Good Advice

King Jan 69 wrote:

@ Community

Have you'll been with a girl that refuses to see you because she believes that she is developing feelings for you?

However, her modus operandi is to scam you for more and better

Run Jan, Runnnnn 😁

@ Randal

Noted lol

Never met a SP that asked for money before even getting there
And as for that acting like a gf thing and offering raw n asking for money I mean hw often ru seeing the same wg for them to feel that comfortable with you?
I seen a few sp's repeatedly but mayb like twice in a month, there's so many choices available just from sp's that we know are nt scams esp the wgs who get good reviews on here are enough to keep you going for a few months before having to see the same so again
edited by nevil on 1/13/2024

I have never met one either Nevil.
As far as regular girls go.
I often find myself enjoying the service of a girl to the extent that I visit her repeatedly. Sometimes like 6 times in the month.
I do get bored eventually.

Many wg's offer the same services but none offer it the same as another.
When you walk into the room and she looks excited to see you.
When she can't wait to get on you.
It's different. I feel that for a true GFE there has to be a little genuine attraction and perhaps an emotional connection.

When I Sometimes describe a girl as being very professional. That doesn't work for me. I need someone that is vulnerable. Someone that will give her all. It's flying close to the sun and just but avoid getting burnt.
In conclusion catching feelings does happen.

Would you say the feelings go both ways

Nevil I do feel some connection and I do care about the girls that treat me well.
I have never found myself considering a relationship though.
I have a line and I don't cross it.
I see the girls when I call and book. That's it. Every encounter is a paid session at her place.

@ Asset @ Community

I believe many of us on this forum had or have an established relationship with a number of WG's and from this point of view may understand their personality and behaviour better than most.

Furthermore having an understanding of this psychology sets a standard that helps us gauge WG's in general.

I see a number of working girls regularly, and that's because they have become friends more than anything else. For instance, I could see 3-5 different WG's between 4-6 times a month.

In terms of the nature of the relationship, we must remember that cash is king and no one knows that better than WG's. We must always remember that they are out selling an experience and that's why they appear so appealing but in reality they are rather fucked up.

Emotional manipulation is a way of life for them and you got to be smart to play them at their own game. If they ghost you, do the same. They always come back, you just got to be patient.

You must remember that they are not your GF but offer GFE, so they masters at their game. Hence it is intentional that they don't offer a standard GFE with everyone. They out fishing for a Whale. Believe it or not but they also out selling intimacy. You just need to be aware to spot it. This is when tricks of the trade like a 'Real GFE' become more apparent.

Sorry guys but those chocolates or wine you give them are been enjoyed by some of their more favoured regulars. I can testify to that lol.

Frankly, it is enjoyable having a relationship with a WG but you need to know where to draw the line and remember they just in it for the payday.
edited by King Jan 69 on 1/14/2024

gosh this is to much now
i think most punters want to just fuck and get the hell outa there

keep all that other nonsense away from me

KZN ladies on Redvelvet have really dwindled in this site