https://test.redvelvet.co.za Redvelvet Escorts Forum - Recent posts https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post1218 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post1218 Punting's cheaper by #RV Busy D Sun, 08 Jul 2018 15:58:13 GMT Sun, 08 Jul 2018 15:58:13 GMT https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post961 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post961 Let me give you all an insight of what a woman who has been betrayed by this punting that you brag about. I found out that my husband of 10 years has been punting. He begged me to stay, that he loves me and doesn’t want to loose me and promised to stop. No matter how I want to give him another chance and let start over. Our relationship has been broken and will never be the same or let’s say it will take time to get back to normal. I’m a very attractive lady, beautiful, not so bad in bed either obviously not a porn star but I’m average and always willing to try new things and I’m financial stable, the husband doesn’t have to give any of his cent. There is nothing I cant do for myself. So basically it would be cheaper for him to be with me than punting. Any of you guys if you would see me, you’ll say he is a lucky guy to have me. That is exactly what I fail to understand what more one needed to do to satify this need to go out and buy from different girls. Every time we want to be intimate after the whole saga, this whole thing plays in my mind, how the girls were with him? It has made me so insecure about what to do to him when making love. I find it hard to freely and enjoy him. While on top of him I wonder if he enjoying or what he is thinking about. When ever he leaves the house I worry if he’ll go to these places again. So it’s like moving backward in a relationship. No matter how he tries to work with me on this to get over it. It is hard. So I just want to let you know that if you think the recovery after your Patner has cheated on you is easy and fun Road, it is not. Things are never the same. So if you really value your relationship, you rather stop it otherwise there is so much to loose if things get out. The repairs is like starting from the beginning imagine starting all over a marriage or relationship of 10 years. Instead of moving forward now moving back wards. There is no justification for cheating. There are other options to consider then opting for this. I can't say I understand what you're feeling ma'am, but with most guys, it's just about being with other women. Just sex. If he ever stayed out all night then maybe you can question his motives toward you, but at the end of the day, "Home is where the heart is". Please don't think I'm mitigating his actions as I neither know him nor you or your relationship. Most punters I've met all have a similar mind set in that we live in the moment, if your husband is the same, trust me when i say that when he's with you, he's not thinking about much else. I feel glad that you guys are working it out and wish you all the best. Keep him busy by making sure you are fully satisfied first. Remember we're not built for moving backward for long, nor can we forget, but we can move forward and learn to ignore the pains. by FFs Thu, 23 Nov 2017 06:12:36 GMT Thu, 23 Nov 2017 06:12:36 GMT https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post902 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post902 Punting of course! Unlike most guys here, my wife gives out every day she can. Maybe not exactly when I'm asking, but when she can. My only issue is that she doesn't do everything that I want. There's always someone out there willing to do what you want, when you want, how you want, with no issues. Variety is the spice of life! So get spicy! by FFs Wed, 25 Oct 2017 00:13:52 GMT Wed, 25 Oct 2017 00:13:52 GMT https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post891 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post891 Yay How you doing by Frank Tue, 10 Oct 2017 15:57:36 GMT Tue, 10 Oct 2017 15:57:36 GMT https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post676 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post676 glad am not alone thought i was some kind of freak guys. no matter how sexy or how good the wife in bed, we got to have a change. its a win win situation. punting of course. by naughtysaint Wed, 07 Dec 2016 20:50:37 GMT Wed, 07 Dec 2016 20:50:37 GMT https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post672 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post672 Punting all the way. Have been punting for many years now and I find it much better than having a girlfriend whilst being married. In punting there's no strings attached and you are paying for a service and helping these girls make a living. Very little risk of getting caught and when you done after your booking all you do is erase the number off your phone. I've had 1 or 2 girlfriends in the past. I thought it would be cheaper than punting, but hell no. They nag you for money all the time, and are constantly texting you even though you instruct them not too. Risk is much greater of getting caught and if you don't play along then they threaten to expose you. So for me I've been there and done that and I prefer punting all the way. It's a new experience with a new girl all the time. Just be sure to be safe by Smooth Operator Thu, 01 Dec 2016 10:42:56 GMT Thu, 01 Dec 2016 10:42:56 GMT https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post651 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post651 Anybody knows where ciara coloured bubbly from musgrave workinh by grand Sat, 05 Nov 2016 10:09:14 GMT Sat, 05 Nov 2016 10:09:14 GMT https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post444 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post444 Punting is a part time thing but gf and marriage are full time And always full time are stressful but shortime are so sweet by Angel247 Fri, 25 Mar 2016 21:43:08 GMT Fri, 25 Mar 2016 21:43:08 GMT https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post267 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post267 Have to agree, married but have to punt at least once a week. It's more than I get at home by lallu Tue, 24 Mar 2015 12:39:58 GMT Tue, 24 Mar 2015 12:39:58 GMT https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post248 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post248 punting is very nice hey but ds weekend I met to girls tht disappointed me when I met thm cos they are no way close to what I saw on the pictures, these pictures are rili deceiving sometimes and I had to make up stories cos I culdnt pay for an ugly persn by Jowb Mon, 23 Feb 2015 10:04:43 GMT Mon, 23 Feb 2015 10:04:43 GMT https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post244 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post244 am a foreigner here i have no GF here but i have a serious relationship back home so all i do is punting but is just so painful they decline when i ask them to come to my apartment i don't feel comfortable at their place that is my only problem by sleembosun Mon, 23 Feb 2015 02:38:38 GMT Mon, 23 Feb 2015 02:38:38 GMT https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post157 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post157 Holy crap, so I just had my first punting experience. For R450 I got a truly hot skinny lady, with a great attitude, and pretty freaky FH. No effort. No extra expense. No shit. AND I was happy happy happy to tip R550 on top and I still think it was WAY cheaper than any single bout of sex i've had with the wife or GF in the past 20 years! This is a no-brainer! Oh, and none of the full day build-up with a 75% rejection rate! ie 4 days of build up gets you 1 session of sex with the wife. This was a case of feel like it now, text 4 WG's, got 2 replies, was with the one within 30mins of starting. Oh, and as an aside, I'm considered very attractive and in great shape, with a truly sexy wife - yet this is truly how my life works! For someone who has an ugly wife, can't get GF's, or has it even worse than me - well truly a no brainer! by craigie Tue, 29 Apr 2014 13:25:29 GMT Tue, 29 Apr 2014 13:25:29 GMT https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post156 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post156 Punting.. Far way cheaper and safer if you already in a relationship. Agree with Bobby, once there is emotion, there is no fun by Galiron Tue, 29 Apr 2014 12:03:58 GMT Tue, 29 Apr 2014 12:03:58 GMT https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post153 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post153 So my live-in GF costs me R20k/m in medical, car, phones, modest R5k allowance, insurances, fuel, etc. For that I could get a full time WG I believe (access 2x/week which is MORE than my GF gives out!). No sulking. No issues. No declining my advances. No whining about what I'm trying to do to her in bed. And most importantly the flexibility to change or add to the mix!! My GF's currently on very thin ice ;-) by craigie Mon, 28 Apr 2014 11:58:36 GMT Mon, 28 Apr 2014 11:58:36 GMT https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post94 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post94 Punting is great u get to do what u want by owie Wed, 01 May 2013 00:12:56 GMT Wed, 01 May 2013 00:12:56 GMT https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post83 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post83 Punting by max Tue, 19 Feb 2013 19:38:05 GMT Tue, 19 Feb 2013 19:38:05 GMT https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post82 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post82 ...Depends on the needs of the individual i think.Whilst work is great, it is nice to come home to someone other than the dogs... by Navaa Tue, 19 Feb 2013 18:44:00 GMT Tue, 19 Feb 2013 18:44:00 GMT https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post81 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post81 ...Depends on the needs of the individual i think.Whilst work is great, it is nice to come home to someone other than the dogs... by Navaa Tue, 19 Feb 2013 18:42:59 GMT Tue, 19 Feb 2013 18:42:59 GMT https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post50 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post50 Punting! Cheaper and more exciting... by Doll Mon, 21 Jan 2013 19:01:40 GMT Mon, 21 Jan 2013 19:01:40 GMT https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post43 https://test.redvelvet.co.za/topic5-dating-or-punting.aspx#post43 Punting lots of excitement and no strings attached and way cheaper than having a girlfriend or a wife. by John Wayne Thu, 10 Jan 2013 05:22:13 GMT Thu, 10 Jan 2013 05:22:13 GMT