Hi all,


I'm curious about hiring an escort and as such have joined RedVelvet however I cannot find any information on how the process works and I really don't want to insult any of the girls/boys or worse completely do the wrong thing and cause untold horror (yeah, ok, slight overreaction there). I can't be the only one that doesn't know the ropes so there must be some kind of "guide" available I would think but I simply cannot find it. Can anyone shed some light on the subject please.


Sincerely appreciated...

If u want my advice don't do it, find yourself a gf n stay in your lane, once u start booking these girls u won't stop

nevil wrote:

If u want my advice don't do it, find yourself a gf n stay in your lane, once u start booking these girls u won't stop

Have to agree with Nevil. You'll find a woman when the time is right...

But if you must, I'd advise not rushing. Keep an eye on the forums. Visit a girl with multiple good reviews. I think the key rule is... "When in doubt, ask". Basic questions would be:
Rates? Example - Hourly, half hour, longer?
What service is including? Example - owo (bj without a condom), cum once policy? Touching allowed?
edited by Keeganpillay on 1/22/2022

Yeah just ask things, most of the ladies are more than welcome to put your mind at ease and when you do go for your first definitely book someone with quite a bit of reviews (not going to lie, so far I have had a far better overall experience with ESA girls as the reviews system there is much better etc).
Just remember, these girls are humans too, most of them are trying to put themselves through studies or are trying to build something else with the money they are making etc. Don't be shy to show genuine interest and threat them with the utmost respect and have some good plain fun!

But yes, do know that when you do go down this path, you will find it hard to get off of it lol...
If you do have more questions, please do not hesitate to ask here.

Also let us know what area you are in? We could always give you some recommendations if you are absolutely sure you want to do this (it is pretty fucking awesome HAHAHAHA).

Step 1, get a burner phone/sim. A prepaid one not rica'd to your name. You can get these from any of the Pakistani cell shops. If anyone calls you to try scamming you, throw the sim away and move on to the next one.
When calling a girl, be very clear on what you are looking for, and ask what they offer. Guide line is a 1 hour booking is normally 2 rounds. Some girls offer bare blowjobs most do not offer cum in mouth. Be careful on going down on a girl. You need to trust that she is clean. I suggest finding 1 or 2 that you are happy with and become a regular.

Also be careful of some of the posters here. Some are the girls or their pimps/madams trying to self promote. Check if the poster has also done reviews on other girls and no just promoting 1 person.

Thank you all for your answers, I understand that it's a slippery slope. I'm not a young man anymore and I have bucket list items that need checking off or I'll regret never having had the experiences. I never do anything without doing my homework so to speak so I am absolutely on the same page in that regard hence my reaching out to you all here. I had no idea how to go about initiating contact or knowing that the lady of my interest is who she claims to be. I have always had the utmost respect for all people and especially those of the female persuasion. In fact it's often led to failed relationships because I'm always the nice guy, the chivalrous guy, the doting guy... i.e. the guy that lady's don't want in my experience. To answer regarding my location I can say only that I'm in the Cape Town area. I'm still not sure whether I'll go down this road (thank you for those who have expressed their understandable warnings, they don't fall on deaf ears) but I have to find out more for my own sanity and to satisfy my curiosity.

It is daunting for a first timer.

Shortlist a few profiles that interest you and search under the reviews forum to see what others who have visited have to say.
If no reviews exist, then create your own "review request " thread where others can comment and advise you.

Google search the number too, as advertisers often advertise elsewhere too - and there might be reviews there too.
As for contacting - just psych yourself up and make the call. Be polite and ask her rates and dos and donts. You can often pick up a lot from her voice, tone etc hence i prefer calling over whatsapp BUT whatsapp is especially helpful for gathering info and if you are particularly nervous.

So just some basic pointers from someone whos not a master in this field. Lets see what the other experienced players can add on....

l1qu1DL0ckK33per wrote:

Thank you all for your answers, I understand that it's a slippery slope. I'm not a young man anymore and I have bucket list items that need checking off or I'll regret never having had the experiences. I never do anything without doing my homework so to speak so I am absolutely on the same page in that regard hence my reaching out to you all here. I had no idea how to go about initiating contact or knowing that the lady of my interest is who she claims to be. I have always had the utmost respect for all people and especially those of the female persuasion. In fact it's often led to failed relationships because I'm always the nice guy, the chivalrous guy, the doting guy... i.e. the guy that lady's don't want in my experience. To answer regarding my location I can say only that I'm in the Cape Town area. I'm still not sure whether I'll go down this road (thank you for those who have expressed their understandable warnings, they don't fall on deaf ears) but I have to find out more for my own sanity and to satisfy my curiosity.

Stop being Mr Nice Guy and learn to be a selfish asshole! It's harder than you think lol. But for escorts you should just be professional (be respectful regarding your booking arrangements as these girls won't waste your time).


Don't get any illusions from the first GFE booking that the girl is really that into you etc. And even if she is don't become Mr Sensitive and try to save her. Think of it as just entertainment similar to porn. And also remember that the so called "normal" women in society won't be so willing to cater to your fantasies unless you are a Chad they meet at the pub after getting hammered. The punter lifestyle will afford you the ability to get the sex you want when you want. And always remember to stay safe and avoid suspect girls.


Also stay fit and healthy, you'll be having strong sexual experiences that normal couples won't even cover so you need the strength and stamina. Plus the ladies will always favor a guy who looks fit regardless if he's paying them or not.


Regularly read on here to decide who you'll see on a regular basis. Good luck recruit.

Hi. Be courteous with them. Ask rates, what's included etc. And book an appointment. Be on time. I found that treating them like a lady works well and having a general conversation helps you to click. As above choose 1 to 3 chick's and stick with them as it is safer.

First time as well and this thread has been helpful. I also have things I want to do before "settling down" haha.

Just don't go around throwing your Money around like in the movies these ladies will not hesitate to part u wid your cash n giv u less than expected in return

What do u guys understand as full house. Had a wg tell me only missionery position is full house no touching or feeling. Then asked for extra 150 for different positions. On top of that she answers the phone as i was about to put it in.