So gents, do you walk away from an appointment if something is not upto par, or just grit it and go through with it

I recently decided to call an advertiser who looked attractive in her pics, but i hadnt seen any reviews on.
Was looking for a massage only - and she was offering this along with a bj at a rather decent price.
Her whatsapp pic had her face (not in ad) and all looked good.

I confirmed a time and got to her address and became a tad concerned as the house was rather neglected and unkempt from the outside.
Nonetheless, got called inside by a dude in his late 20s or early 30s who tried to make small talk, and then shouted : "Mom, your client is here"

The inside of the house was stuffy and smelly, not tidy at all and i was told to be careful not to step on the cat as she scratches 😆

Urgh - i had already lost hope when the advertiser came , looking far older than her pics.

I made some bs excuse that i got called back to work, and gave her R100 for her troubles, which she was quite thankful for, but she did say i should come back to sample her awesome treatment. Eish no - i shall pass.

I do actually feel a tad sorry for her as she doesn't seem well off at all and is probably just trying to eke out a living - hence i wont name and shame. But just feel that more effort could have been made - starting with some tidying up and cleaning, and the son could have been elsewhere to keep things more discreet.

Makes you appreciate efforts other advertisers put into their work and themselves. I guess the cancellation fee was better than a disappointing treatment.

@MrSomebody - most punters have got the T-shirt. I also feel sorry for the ladies - the money puts food on the table for them. What I normally do if I get a lemon and do the half an hour appointment and make a run for it.

Used to take bare minimum too @Test - but somehow always felt let down and would post a mediocre or bad review.

Nowadays wonder if walking away is better , or accepting a potential lemon and cry about it later.
Maybe her service could have been exceptional but i just lost my mojo with the stuffy untidy place i found myself in

Had a similar experience booked a wg in pvt apartment all was going well then she excuses herself for a moment and comes back with a 4 year old that came from school in the room and says he won't bother us got dressed paid my dues and left couldn't do the deed with the kid there

damn that would have been a cock blocker for sure

guys there's no time for feeling sorry , its false advertising and poor service

post their links so we don't make the same mistake

da12b wrote:

Had a similar experience booked a wg in pvt apartment all was going well then she excuses herself for a moment and comes back with a 4 year old that came from school in the room and says he won't bother us got dressed paid my dues and left couldn't do the deed with the kid there

Eish lol - was once spending time with a wg in her flat, and was startled to her the front door and gate unlock.

Got worried but she said "dont worry, its just my kids coming from school"
Shw walked out stark naked to greet them (2 girls and a boy) and then came back to continue....

😅once had an experience pre corona in glenwood where a wg greeted me blew me ,and for some reason i look around and see some dogs staring at me so i ask her to get rid of them for a while ,she does so but wipes the dirty paw prints with her socks😅i dissappeared so fast before even doing the deed

I’ve bailed out a few times. Girls were just to ugly or it was a bait and switch. Bound to happen at some point

Ty55 wrote:

Well I did drive off a appointment, wg said R800, as I'm driving she messages and say R250 extra I'm assuming that was to book the lodge... I kept driving

She prob thought she could milk a confirmed appointment for all she could.

I once went to a massage girl who confirmed a price for sensual body to body.

Got to her premises and luckily met her in lounge before any transaction took place - she then tells me its more to take her shirt off, more for bra, even more for full nude 😮😄. I walked out and drove off and saw her looking most stunned.

Mr Somebody wrote:

So gents, do you walk away from an appointment if something is not upto par, or just grit it and go through with it

I recently decided to call an advertiser who looked attractive in her pics, but i hadnt seen any reviews on.
Was looking for a massage only - and she was offering this along with a bj at a rather decent price.
Her whatsapp pic had her face (not in ad) and all looked good.

I confirmed a time and got to her address and became a tad concerned as the house was rather neglected and unkempt from the outside.
Nonetheless, got called inside by a dude in his late 20s or early 30s who tried to make small talk, and then shouted : "Mom, your client is here"

The inside of the house was stuffy and smelly, not tidy at all and i was told to be careful not to step on the cat as she scratches 😆

Urgh - i had already lost hope when the advertiser came , looking far older than her pics.

I made some bs excuse that i got called back to work, and gave her R100 for her troubles, which she was quite thankful for, but she did say i should come back to sample her awesome treatment. Eish no - i shall pass.

I do actually feel a tad sorry for her as she doesn't seem well off at all and is probably just trying to eke out a living - hence i wont name and shame. But just feel that more effort could have been made - starting with some tidying up and cleaning, and the son could have been elsewhere to keep things more discreet.

Makes you appreciate efforts other advertisers put into their work and themselves. I guess the cancellation fee was better than a disappointing treatment.

I dont think its about naming and shaming. Its making other punters aware so they also dont fall into the trap.
We are here to help each other. Today another punter could be booking the same lady because he was not made aware.