The first bit of what she is saying is true. I can confirm this as one of the higher class girls has told me about Barry, due to him constantly irritating her.
Bear in mind most girls keep these things private, but in this case Barry makes a point of letting the girl know exactly who he is. He also proceeds to hound her via text messages on both RV and ESA forums (ESA has private message function).
This is usual description and characteristics:
1. Confirmed the description given above. Fat older Indian gent on the darker side (Heard this description more than once).
2. Very well spoken (evident in his posts). Claims to be an advocate (Great, the girls need some legal protection!).
3. Seems to have a very BIG....ego as well. Just check out his post headings. But a lot of us do
His Game / MO:
1. Makes it known that he is a popular reviewer on both RV and ESA. This sets the stage for the wg to provide a better service out of fear of bad reviews.
Note that he DOES use a different nick on ESA that can sound Afrikaans. This is just misdirection. He has also claimed on numerous occasions that someone was impersonating him whenever he lost rapport with a wg. This is to get back quickly in her good book.
I can further confirm this as very few Afrikaans guys would know Priyanka Chopra and the hit bollywood song "Desi-Girl" which he used to hint as his favorite girl in a previous post.
Also note, I did not ever ask about Barry. Instead I was asked if I in fact knew him as they know I'm also on the forum. He has irritated some of them beyond measure but they just play along for the customer.
2. Usually only books 30 minutes sessions as he can barely last more than 5 or 7 minutes. This allows him to visit multiple different women due to 30 mins sessions been cheaper. And he still haggles on this.
3. Tells the girl that one review from him will bring her a lot of business. This usually works on the newbies. The established girls who are already hi class and hot won't bother, they're phones get 100's of messages each day. I've seen this.
4. Once some rapport is established (Most girls with always stay good to you after the first booking to get a return booking), he checks their profiles and asks them for better prices just for him when they visit Durban etc. That's the crux of his strategy.
5. Rinse and repeat the above. A lot of the girls would get irritated at this point (they hate haggling. And if you want better service / rates you better look like a Chad, Tyrone, Pookie or Ray Ray or actually be rich enough not to haggle 30 minutes sessions).
The second bit of the above story by @HereToHelp does seem dodge. So many variables could go wrong here. Perhaps someone was spying on Barry's car. Some of the venues he goes to can be dodgy (cheaper rates).
His tastes does differ from mine. Fat girls are usually cheaper (less demand for them). But we do have a few favorites in common.
I've been on this forum for some time. I've changed my nick from time to time but I'm sure some old readers would spot me to confirm credibility.
Barry has done a lot for the forum with his reviews, but just keep his strategy in mind when reading them. These girls are not exactly throwing their panties at him.
Don't be THAT guy who has to constantly ask for special rates right from the get go just because you have a following on the forum.
edited by Chad Thundercock on 10/8/2022
edited by Chad Thundercock on 10/8/2022
edited by Chad Thundercock on 10/8/2022