Hello there

I wanted your opinion, because this is becoming a pattern and maybe it's me that I do something wrong.. I've sent a similar message on WhatsApp to a large amount of working girls

"Hi ***, seen your profile on redvelvet, wanted to enquire about your services, what you do and what you don't, and your fees"

Standard answer was

"30 min 300 hour 400"

Just different fees, as expected, but nothing about the service.. Hope fees were in Rands and not in pounds 😂

My questions are:

1 am I doing anything wrong?
2 do I have too high expectations?
3 should I suck it up and accept this behavior?
4 how can I improve my approach? I hate calling them, because, at least, via message I can (thank God) miss their tone

Thanks for who's going to reply

Lord
edited by Lord_randal on 5/28/2023

thank you Sir Punt

I have also tried to ask again, but I assume they identify me as "Problematic" and they stop answering. The marked doesn't have to be that bad to lose a client for not answering a reasonable question

once I explained that I was willing to pay more than what she stated to focus on the services but her answer was "Ok" ...

The use of an automatic response is, also for me, a good idea because it gives them the opportunity to polish their English. They have, however, find a way to do a bit of customer service and answer questions when needed.

I most of the times like chatting with my clients (obviously not in this business). However, I don't feel it is necessary but I cannot escape a client's work related question

With the higher fees equal to better service I don't know.. I keep on reading on this forum that the scamming on high ends escorts is skyrocketing

Lord

I prefer a message because, not being local and English mother language, I go crazy when they start speaking slang or give me addresses that I cannot write on maps 🤣😭😭 and, probably, because so used and comfortable to written communication as we all do at work
I see that it seems you both prefer the verbal communication and I'll try a bit more but..
Don't you think that it's up to the Escort to find a way to communicate and skim the messages? I assume the questions are always the same, it would be just sufficient to copy and paste the answer given to the previous client and, maybe, personalize a bit.. If one girl wants to climb the ladder needs to put some effort, otherwise will live for ever in the dump. Too many messages is not an excuse for too much lazyness..

hey KDASH

now it looks like I can't speak English, I can , just they can't ;) If I am not wrong you are from WC, here in Durban is another world from that point of view

in any case, I get the point that it's your opinion that a verbal approach is better and probably you are right. However, what if a client doesn't want or cannot call? In any case, in the rest of the word, the first approach with an escort is done by website
edited by Lord_randal on 5/28/2023

For me, if I have to drag information out of the service provider, I don't make a booking. Simple as that. I am EXTREMELY courteous on Whatsapp and I find that I often get good responses because of that (wishing them a good day, asking whether they've had a good week, that sort of stuff) . But if I get monosyllabic answers or not complete information they don't hear from me again.

I have replied to a similar thread on a different forum with the same view. For me personally WhatsApp is easier as a starting point for open communication. I can send a message any time, and I expect a reply within 24 hours, not necessarily immediately. As SPs I cannot believe they are busy 10 hours a day with bookings, so I feel they should be using their time to market themselves. If an ad says no WhatsApp messages, I will not even contact the SP. My first contact is not going to be by phone. Being shy and not always available to make calls, makes WhatsApp an easy medium for me. Also, the way an SP communicates, let's me know how she would communicate at a booking

@Cyrus and @jackfrost I am glad we are on the same page. I feel having Whatsapp should be one of the minimum requirement, as well as, having an automatic reply with basic info like fees, services and area of service (the detailed address can be provided at the end)

I see, with pleasure, that who has no rush gives enough time to provide a courteous answer to us. If one has a lot of rush, he can call and get the best from it

I hope WGs will read this 3D, although whatever we are saying should be the barely minimum service..

Dude, I was polite and said sorry to disturb, would just like to enquire how long you around for and your rates and services offered,and the response was "not sure"....lol

Lord_randal wrote:

Hello there

I wanted your opinion, because this is becoming a pattern and maybe it's me that I do something wrong.. I've sent a similar message on WhatsApp to a large amount of working girls

"Hi ***, seen your profile on redvelvet, wanted to enquire about your services, what you do and what you don't, and your fees"

Standard answer was

"30 min 300 hour 400"

Just different fees, as expected, but nothing about the service.. Hope fees were in Rands and not in pounds 😂

My questions are:

1 am I doing anything wrong?
2 do I have too high expectations?
3 should I suck it up and accept this behavior?
4 how can I improve my approach? I hate calling them, because, at least, via message I can (thank God) miss their tone

Thanks for who's going to reply

Lord
edited by Lord_randal on 5/28/2023

Lord_randal wrote:

I prefer a message because, not being local and English mother language, I go crazy when they start speaking slang or give me addresses that I cannot write on maps 🤣😭😭 and, probably, because so used and comfortable to written communication as we all do at work
I see that it seems you both prefer the verbal communication and I'll try a bit more but..
Don't you think that it's up to the Escort to find a way to communicate and skim the messages? I assume the questions are always the same, it would be just sufficient to copy and paste the answer given to the previous client and, maybe, personalize a bit.. If one girl wants to climb the ladder needs to put some effort, otherwise will live for ever in the dump. Too many messages is not an excuse for too much lazyness..

Oh gosh when it comes to verbal communication, I have personally experienced punters question my pics or profile based on how I speak.
Or they would just drop to call again, then when they ask my race and whether I'm really the person the profile.

However no offense taken, but I get annoyed with the manner and tone one would ask.

I prefer messaging first, and if they don't reply, it's a good sign too. Interestingly, though it made sense for me to call to finalise details and to get a final "sense", I have now been on a few punts where the only communication was via whatsapp. Side note - I have been on calls where the 1st response is Rxxx for an hour, Rzzzz for 30 minutes etc, with no detail whatsoever - so calling is not always better/easier.