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Lance Hardwood

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03 Jul 2024, 22:36
I usually stay away from Indian girls as a rule. The majority of them are simply not sexual beings and look at sex as a chore. This is why a significant portion of married indian men are becoming punters early on. Trust me, even if a movie star went in there for a booking, he would still get the same bad treatment. Don't waste time on asexual women who have zero sex drive. Life is too short.
03 Jul 2024, 22:32
So sad to hear that she has gotten worse. I had some great times with her. But girls can't keep doing this job for too long and she's been active since 2014. Sooner or later the bitterness will kick in and all the fake acting (she gives a really good performance) for GFE eventually messes up their understanding of intimacy.

Especially when you consider that she has to give the same level of performance to just about any guy that walks through the door. The drugs are there to numb the emotions. Sadly I can confirm that she hasn't treated her best regulars kindly over the years. Once your use wears out (accommodation, food, tickets) she exhibits the "Thank you.....Next!" attitude.

I've been on the receiving end of this more than once.

I know about the hobo @Doodle is referring to. When I saw him I really lost all attraction for her considering she must be banging this high risk guy at her clients expense. I mean honestly wtf!!

I don't think the Cass I knew is ever coming back. What's left is a hollow shell of whoever was in there when she still had a heart (and a few more brain cells). I'm sure she still has a sweet tight ass though.
edited by Lance Hardwood on 7/3/2024
06 Jun 2024, 07:19
I remember I had an appointment planned with her when she was last seen in Durban. However she had an emergency and had to cancel. Never heard from her since. I used to be one of her best regulars. Very sweet girl. Hope she's doing well wherever she is. I do miss our sessions. She wasted no time once you get in the door and had to be ready for action.
edited by Lance Hardwood on 6/6/2024
06 Jun 2024, 07:16
Been a while since I've been online. This one is one of my favourites. However, as stated above, you better hope you are catching her on her high and not her come down (mood swings). Great girl otherwise and was also very pretty from what I remember. Perhaps I'll pay her a visit soon.
12 Jul 2023, 06:14
If it's the same girl I saw there like a year or so back, then best not to waste your time. I think she's changing her advert name to start fresh again but it sounds like the service remains the same. I remember the same points: mechanical, hairy even up to her crack, off putting attitude etc.

To top it off, she told me I'm welcome to write bad reviews as there's "plenty more where I came from". And weirdly enough I was polite the whole session and still got the attitude. Very entitled attitude for sure.


But hairy girls are a complete disqualification for me anyhow. Ladies you do realize that we look at your assholes during doggy style right? Best not to take bookings unless you clean shaven, showered and haven't just taken a dump before sexy time.
24 Jun 2023, 10:45
Had the pleasure of seeing Laura a few more times since she got back. Still as sexy as ever and seemed to be doing well. I still rate her as one of my favourite experiences and she does go out of her way to please you.

However, these past few weeks she has not been taking my calls or even showing up on WhatsApp. I've seen her ad say "Available now" every now and then but still get ghosted.

I'm a little concerned as I'm an old regular and hope she's doing ok. Has anyone been able to get a booking recently? I heard rumours that she may be back with that toxic ex gf of hers who's got a bad case of penis envy. If that's the case, it would certainly explain a lot.

Laura's link (Here's hoping she comes back to the side of sausage instead of tacos 100%):
https://redvelvet.co.za/escorts/escorts_details?userid=15829
11 Jun 2023, 16:46
I was a good regular of hers. I never got too personal but I did know that she was sick and needed some time to recover.


I hope she got better and is doing well.

Its sad but true, we are really just a wallet to most of them regardless of any attachment you may feel. Would have been nice for her to at least inform her regulars that she won't be working instead of just going completely off the grid.
31 May 2023, 08:30
Cyrus wrote:
She's an amazing punt, but she's crazier than a rat in a tin shithouse. I don't know what she's on, but her moods are all over the show.



Another day, another dick, another dollar..........and at some point another bag of the devils dandruff :) .


Jokes aside, they are usually in a good mood when they just sniffed something. Unfortunately that's how some of them cope with seeing so many different guys and pushing themselves to give a proper service regardless of what the guy looks like etc. The mood changes happen during the "comedown phase" after the stimulant effects wear off. Depression, paranoia and anxiety kick in at that point.



I noticed a lot of the sexy slim ones seem to have that unstable personality. Guess it comes with the territory. Still better than banging fat chicks.
edited by Lance Hardwood on 5/31/2023
edited by Lance Hardwood on 5/31/2023
30 May 2023, 11:53
It's Cassie. Probably just remembered to update her location after an all night bender. Had some good times with her. They don't make em like that these days....athletic and fit!
13 May 2023, 08:46
One of the best girls you'll get to experience. She's hard to get hold off, but she's worth the wait. You can't be impatient with the top girls as they have so many options to choose from (Their WhatsApps get flooded etc). It's good to keep a rotation going so you won't be too disappointed when one cancels due to unforeseen circumstances etc. Blue balls is a real thing after all.
13 May 2023, 08:43
How is it that this joint is still running despite the serious bad rep and rumours of trafficking and abusing girls? We in Durban are really fucked in this regard.

If we had a nice proper neat house like Heaven on Earth opening up here, the corrupt deadbeat cops would extorting them looking for freebies and bribes in no time. Oh wait...perhaps that's how these guys avoid getting shut down...
01 May 2023, 17:58
She was also on my radar a few months ago, but something always felt off.

Deep voice is definitely a dead give-away that "she" was once a "he". I noticed that some of these trans women also have had some work done near the hips area to give them that hour glass look. Before this, you'd be able to tell by the narrow waist and hips. Anyhow, doesn't sound like you enjoyed yourself with this science-made "woman" anyhow.
01 May 2023, 17:51
I make the drive to Kloof at least once a week for business so it's not an issue for me. Always great to see her and she's working in quite a nice loft which is very private, neat and discreet. Most girls at venues are always out to one-up each other, and I think she has had it with working at "houses". One of the best experiences Durban has to offer if you rub her the right way ;-)